I know I know!!!!
I really am a serious person, and this really means much to me. So my excuses for flaunting my days here definitely won’t be flimsy. But let’s leave it at that.
The big brother experiment has started, and unfortunately I just have to see the highlights as I do not have a means to watch it live, but still I keep up.
Seems the show comes up when there are mighty political issues in the country and the experiment is used to keep our minds off what is really on ground.
I like a few housemates this year unlike previous years, I stick with just one, and move to another when the previous is evicted. This year is quite different. I realize i like at least 4(many I guess)
Dora is a cool chic, initially I thought she came in with a BOOBS game but no, she is quiet fun and entertaining from the Look of things.
Erica is cool too. The kinda girl I’ll befriend easily because she is totally the opposite side of me, cool headed, laid back, calm, smooth........ just the opposite me.
Kiddwayya, cool too.
Ozo.....this is the kinda housemate that I see nothing he does as wrong, be it wrong or right. He is a whole package. Kind of dude I’ll...... let’s just leave it at that.
Personally, i think this social experience is not for the housemates but the viewers. Because the rate at which we go out for each one we like to the extent of maybe hating one who do not like who we like is toxic. I’ve seen it in past years.
That aside, a discussion that they made really helped me to know what i really needed.
When the show started, Ozo specifically stated that his ‘SPEC’ ( short for specification: a word used to describe the kind of person you want to be in a relationship with) is Nengi. But along the line, he finds himself vibing more to Dora. He wants to keep Dora as a friend and always won’t hide the fact that Nengi is his spec. So yesterday, Dora has had enough. She requested they just be housemates. Then talking to the other guys ozo specifically said In his conversation with Eric later, he made it clear that if he had to pick between a relationship in the House and his friendship with Dorathy, he'd pick the latter.
That made me think, I have friendships I won’t trade for any relationship, really good friends. Friends that know you well, friends that know what you are capable of doing, friends that can vouch for you and give everything to see you through. Some days ago I had a chat with a friend and I told him my situation. How I was labeled names. He laughed and said “ I sha know your not going to hurt me” and I was speechless. Know this, he didn’t say that not accepting that I was what I was called NO, he said it in a way that even if I was what I was called, he knows I won’t harm him.
And I realized that some friendships are much more important than some relationships.
My EX husband told anyone who cared to listen that the reason he always locks the door to his room was because he was scared of what I was going to do to him. A man I was with for 5 whole years.
But a friend knew that I sha wasn’t going to harm him.
Till next time abeg!!
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